A sober warning

"See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ."
Colossians 2:8 (NIV)

This verse is used by author John Rosemond in reference to postmodern psychological parenting in his book "Parenting by The Book: Biblical Wisdom for Raising Your Child." Today marks the start of an online book club on my GottaWearShades blog, and this will be the first book we read. If you'd like to join us for some virtual discussion and see how parenting and fellowship and blogging can all come together, visit GWS for more info.

So how do we see to it that we're not taken captive? How do we recognize hollow and deceptive philosophy so we can steer clear? I'm reminded of something I heard years ago in small group Bible study. Lauren Blackburn related that people who are counterfeit money detection experts train not by studying examples of fake money, but rather by spending hours and hours examining every detail of the real thing. They know the genuine bill so well that the counterfeit is easy to spot. Her point was that this is how we should learn to discern lies, by submerging ourselves in the Truth, by studying and examining God's Word so much that we can detect the enemy's counterfeit.

If you are not currently involved in a Bible study, I encourage you to get started. Go on ChristianBook.com or Lifeway.com, narrow your search by gender, or topic or price or anything, and find something that appeals to you. The possibilities are endless. If you're stumped ask me - I'm building quite a library myself, and I even have some DVD kits I'm itching to lend out. Or participate online in a study of Proverbs, beginning next Wednesday on the GWS blog. Study all by yourself, or get together with a friend or a few, or join a Bible study class. God will bless your study, and he will give you a hunger for more. And all the while you'll be learning to recognize the world's lies by becoming familiar with the standard of Truth.

John 9:39 - Amazing Grace

I love it when God blesses my procrastination. Sometimes he shows me that pushing deadlines and putting off my "to do" list is actually his restraining hand at work. (Note: sometimes it's not!)

In Journey to Confidence: Becoming Women Who Witness, the author has us write out several verses that are useful in witnessing, and encourages us to commit them to memory so we can call them to mind by the Holy Spirit when given the opportunity to share the Gospel. "Great," I thought, "I'll use these as my memory verses for the next few months, and I don't have to worry about what to choose for a while." (As if I'm the one doing the choosing!) So I wrote them all in my index card book and was planning on posting Romans 10:9-10 on 15th...

...but Friday came and went........then Saturday came and went....I knew on Sunday I had to get this out of the way - both this entry and my quick sign-in post on the LPM blog, both of which are serving as accountability motivation on my scripture memory journey.

So on the 17th I got up at 6, got my first cup of coffee and settled in the family room with my One Year Bible, thinking I'd knock out the day's reading, then knock out this post. And wouldn't you know it, by the end of the reading God had given me a completely different verse to memorize! It comes near the end of the May 17 New Testament passage:

Then Jesus told him, "I have come to judge the world. I have come to give sight to the blind and to show those who think they see that they are blind." John 9:39 (NLT)

This verse jumped off the page at me, and I immediately realized its value in my "witnessing repertoire", if you will. You see, this scripture addresses the number one cause for my reluctance to share my faith, which is that I believe, mistakenly or otherwise, that most people think they're just fine, that they're "good people," and that that's enough for this life and the next. Who am I to suggest to them that they are lacking? That there's more? That they are unsaved sinners? Yet these are the very ones about whom Jesus is speaking here - those who think they see, who think they have it all under control, who believe that as long as they're less wicked than the next guy and do some good deeds here and there that everything will turn out alright for them.

What's more, I was once one of those wretches who didn't know she was blind till after she could see.

I now realize it's not my responsibility to convince people they need Jesus. Conviction falls under the Holy Spirit's job description. And according to Walt Larrimore and Bill Peel, authors of Going Public with Your Faith, I don't need to be an expert witness with all the answers to all the questions. I just need to be a material witness and testify to what I've seen and heard and what I know to be true. In this case, I know that Jesus said his purpose was to open the eyes of the blind. And I know that since I've been studying the Bible and walking with God, my life is so much easier and more joyful and more meaningful than when I thought I knew it all.

Wish I'd known this years ago...

...but at least I know it now and can teach my kids this and other biblical truths about choosing friends:

He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.
Proverbs 13:20 (NIV)

See my neat new widget on the right? This is counting down the minutes till I go to Houston for Beth Moore's special event for all the LPM Scripture Memory particpants. She claims that we're going to have to recite at least 10 verses to get in the door, but I have trouble believing that they'd actually turn people away. However, I'll be armed (with the sword of the Spirit!) and ready should I have to prove my eligibility. I've been reviewing and rehearsing all my year-to-date verses. Beth says they'll give prizes to those who can recite all 24 verses, and I'm planning on claiming my prize!

I've always been in awe of people who could quote chapter and verse, and now, thanks to Beth Moore's challenge, my accountability to you ThySpace readers, and my motivating countdown widget, I now have 9 verses under my belt - the belt of truth, that is! Hmmm, perhaps Ephesians 6 should be next...

Just what is the Good News?

As Christians we're charged by Jesus to "go and make disciples" (Matthew 28:19) and told that before His return "the gospel must first be preached to all nations" (Mark 13:10). The word gospel literally means "good news", and though many of us know in our hearts and through our experiences that Jesus Christ is indeed The Good News, I for one have a tough time verbalizing this articulately and succinctly.

This brings me to my ambitious memory challenge, 1Corinthians 15:3-8: (That's right - 6 verses!)

"For what I received I passed on to you as of first importance: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers at the same time, most of whom are still living, though some have fallen asleep. Then he appeared to James, then to all the apostles, and last of all he appeared to me also, as to one abnormally born." NIV


Kay Arthur points to this passage when she sums up the gospel message as follows:

"Briefly condensed, the good news according to the Scriptures is: Jesus died for our sins and was buried (vv.3-4). He rose again on the third day and was seen by many (vv. 4-8)." (Lord, Teach Me to Pray Bible Study, pg. 15)

Now there's a clear, succinct statement of belief.

But that's not all. As if to drive home the significance of this passage, God kept putting it before me over the past few weeks. In fact, it is cited again and again in Lee Strobel's "The Case for Christ," where it is repeatedly referred to as one of Christianity's earliest creeds. Though Paul wrote his first letter to the Corinthians about 55 A.D., there is strong evidence that here he is actually reciting a Christian creed, received by him 20 years earlier when he met with Peter and James in Jerusalem. That means this basic statement of belief would have been initially formulated and adopted within just a few years of Christ's crucifixion and resurrection.

I challenge you to memorize this passage with me. Many of us know the Apostles' Creed and the Nicene Creed - they are much longer and more detailed than this, yet we know them by heart. Use Kay Arthur's paraphrase above to provide a framework or summary to help prompt you. To commit these words to memory, and better yet to share them with others, is to hold in our hearts and minds the same statement of faith embraced by the very first believers - those who saw the resurrected Christ face to face, and to speak literally the same words they spoke to share the Good News.

Arrow prayer with a punch

You know what an arrow prayer is, right? It's a quick prayer that you shoot up as it comes to mind, wherever you are, whatever you're doing. Well, apparently David used them, too, and I came across this one the other day in the One Year Bible:

"Please, God, rescue me! Come quickly, LORD, and help me." Psalm 70:1 (NLT)


Now that's something I can memorize with no trouble - 10 words! I bet you can, too. And there's no end to the situations in which this prayer might be appropriate. I can think of all kinds of circumstances from which I may need or want to be rescued. What about you?

The Life Application Bible sums it up nicely - it lists the theme of Psalm 70 to be "An urgent prayer for help. It can be your prayer when you're short on time and long on need." Amen!

The Power of Positive Thinking

Turns out positive thinking isn't just Freudian theory or new-age psycho-babble. Almost 2000 years ago Paul was telling the church at Philippi to think positively. The gist of his letter is finding joy through humility, obedience and perseverance in seeking and following Christ, and he begins his wrap-up with the following words:

"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable - if anything is excellent or praiseworthy - think about such things." Philippians 4:8 NIV

A couple weeks ago I was at Books-A-Million and all of a sudden the book "From Anger to Intimacy: How Forgiveness Can Transform Your Marriage" by Gary Smalley (the love languages guy) and Ted Cunningham caught my attention. Thinking this was God's way of presenting me with a Lenten discipline, I promptly bought it and thought I'd give it a read. Chapter 4 tells us how to take responsibility for our emotions, and in the section directed to those of us who tend to replay our anger (thank heavens they didn't include a picture of me on this page!), the authors quote Paul's advice above and say this:

"...what you rehearse or replay in your mind will eventually seep into your heart as a belief. If you constantly tell yourself that you didn't handle things well, you failed or you're worthless, you will begin to believe it. And if you repeatedly tell yourself that someone else failed or is worthless, you will begin to believe it, which makes forgiveness and reconciliation all the more difficult.
You may be like me and have a tendency to replay conversations years after the fact. What is the one thing you and I can do about that? Hit the Stop button. Stop rewinding. Choose to no longer go back and make up details or events that never happened or were never intended.
Instead of replaying what went wrong or what is wrong in your life, begin following the advice of Paul. Refocus your thinking on the good things."

Let's take this a step further. Last week in Women's Bible Study we focused on worshipping God by learning and praising the various names by which he is known (Healer, Provider, Redeemer, Shepherd, etc.). And isn't God the epitome of truth, nobility, righteousness, purity, loveliness, admirability, excellence and praiseworthiness? It's proven that if we turn our focus to God we naturally turn it away from ourselves, and our thoughts are transformed. So while I'm memorizing eight things to think about, in essence I need only remember one: God.

Stop stewing, start renewing!

Praying for Unity

"Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them, 'Every kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and every city or household divided against itself will not stand.'" Matthew 12:25 (NIV)

Now, I bet you think I'm talking about the church, right? Not this time. This verse was presented to me in black and white just the other day by Stormie Omartian in Chapter One of "The Power of a Praying Wife." (Actually, the version I have is a triple whammy - it's a 3-in-1 collection of "Praying Wife," Praying Parent," and "Praying Woman." I happened upon it at Books-a-Million the other day - which brings me to another aside: BAM's Christian book section is absolutely impressive - 2 entire aisles of everything from Bibles to fiction - check it out!)

Anyway, Stormie calls prayer "The Ultimate Love Language" and explains how it brings unity to a marriage even if you're not praying together. On page 30 the author writes:

The point in all this is that as husband and wife we don't want to be taking separate roads. We want to be on the same path together. We want to be deeply compatible, lifelong companions, and have the love that lasts a lifetime. Prayer, as the ultimate love language, can make that happen.

Well I don't know about you, but I want all that, and if prayer can make it happen then I'm in! Committing Jesus' words above to memory this month will provide me a constant reminder to pray for my marriage, to see my husband through God's eyes, and to understand that I'm the one that needs to be transformed.

Marriage is a ministry which illustrates the relationship of Christ and the church. Ultimately I want mine to be an example that falls in the "do" column, not the "don't" column. By God's grace and for His glory my household will indeed stand, not divided against itself, but unified in Christ.